It comes a time in a relationship where “Enough is a enough” but the question is when is enough Enough? I recalled a song she even stated “Every woman has a breaking point.” But in the song I do recall the lyric that said “Some woman can be lied to, and cheated on and Beated on.” I can honestly but sadly say that I am guilty of 2 of these and both to this day does kinda bother me. The problem that I have is should I or even we as women Take it as a “oops” in a relationship when I guy lies. Or even if a guy cheats on us should we consider it miscommuniation. Lastly if a guy hits us should it have levels? for example if you get a simple shake is that Hitting? or is it slapping that is considering hitting? and if it doesn’t hurt is that considered hitting? or a punch to the arms as if the say “good sport” to a son but done to you is that consider Beating? Where is the line drawn. Keri hilston did have a clear point within this song “We really should blame ourselves.” If we didn’t accept it to begin with would it be a such thing as abuse? Is it that we are confused about what lie and cheating and beatting is about? Or are we in denial about the fact that what Tina said was truth “What love got to do with it” 

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